Minnesota Say Yes to No Campaign
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It's a book. It's a conversation.
It's success for our kids!

A statewide campaign led by MESPA

The MESPA (Minnesota elementary and middle level school principals) and MASSP (Minnesota secondary school principals) boards of directors -- along with a coalition of parent, education, and health organizations, enthusiastically support Minnesota Say Yes to "No", a statewide campaign to read Dr. David Walsh’s "No, Why Kids -- of All Ages -- Need to Hear It and Ways Parents Can Say It" during the 2007-2008 school year. The optional program is highly encouraged for your PTAs, parent groups, and staff as a tool that will help develop self-discipline in students – resulting in greater student achievement.

Minnesota Say Yes to No is a grassroots campaign igniting community conversations around raising healthy, self-reliant kids so they will be successful in school and life.

The right work for principals
"This book campaign is the right work for principals. It is what we should be doing,” said P. Fred Storti, MESPA executive director. “Dave Walsh makes a compelling case; studies have shown that self-discipline can be a greater factor in student achievement than intelligence. His book is appropriate for pre-K through high school, and will resonate with parents, students, and teachers. If I could pick one book to give to my daughters when they have children, this would be it.”

Check out the Say Yes to No buzz in U.S. News and World Report!


Visit  "Say Yes to NO"  to get your school started in the campaign today!  

To register for a Say Yes to No Toolkit with everything you need to get conversations started today, visit the campaign Web site at www.SayYestoNo.org (click on the link above). Check this Web site often for more resources, strategies and opportunities to share.  For a brochure describing the campaign to distribute throughout your school community, click on the PDF link below.


Order bulk quantities of the "Say Yes to No" book at a discount rate
Click here for instructions on ordering books at volume discount pricing!
  • 25-99 books at $8.40 per book
  • 100-999 books at $7.00 per book
  • 1,000-2,499 at $6.30 per book
If you have questions about placing an order, please contact the campaign coordinator: Alissa Peichel, alissa@peichel.com, 612-385-1565.


Statewide Self-Discipline Campaign for Kids Launched
More than a dozen parent, educator and health organizations join campaign to say “No” and raise healthy, successful kids

Minneapolis – To help parents combat the culture of “More, Easy, Fast, and Fun,” the National Institute on Media and the Family and the Minnesota PTA today announced the launch of Minnesota Say Yes to No, a statewide campaign led by a coalition of more than a dozen parent, educator and health organizations to ignite powerful community conversations across the state and to raise successful, healthy and self-reliant kids. Starting in September, the coalition will offer parents an arsenal of tactics, explanations, and examples for using No the right way with their kids.   

“Say Yes to No gives parents and educators the tools they need to instill self-discipline in our children,” said Dr. David Walsh, president of
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the National Institute on Media and the Family. “Too often our kids get caught up in the culture of ‘More, Easy, Fast, and Fun’ and develop Discipline Deficit Disorder. By helping parents become stronger parents, we can ensure our kids can succeed in life and school.”

Using Dr. Walsh’s latest book, No: Why Kids – of All Ages – Need to Hear It and Ways Parents Can Say It, as a guide, the Minnesota Say Yes to No campaign emphasizes self-discipline as the most important life skill that parents and educational leaders can instill in children to help them achieve future success. The coalition is urging parents and educators to read the book and then seek meaningful ways to reverse Discipline Deficit Disorder. The symptoms of Discipline Deficit Disorder range from impatience, a lack of respect, and a need for instant gratification to inflated expectations, a sense of entitlement, selfishness, and falling test scores.

Throughout the year, the coalition will provide parents with useful tactics, explanations, and examples for using No the right way with their kids, from the first years of their lives through high school. Many of the tactics and helpful tips will be available on the campaign’s Web site, www.SayYestoNo.org. The site also will have a blog where parents and educators can provide feedback and questions to Dr. Walsh and the other coalition members.

Locally, educators and community leaders will host discussion groups and town hall meetings to broaden the importance of the concept of self-discipline in academic performance and life success.

“Parents have been looking for solutions on how to compete with MySpace, text messaging and the television for a long time,” said P. Fred Storti, MESPA Executive Director. “Say Yes to No will give parents and educators answers and tactics that puts them back into control of their homes and classrooms.”

Today, kids spend an average of 44.5 hours a week in front of electronic screens, more time than any other activity except sleeping. As a result, each year children are exposed to more than one million Yes messages and a culture of “More, Easy, Fast, Fun” that nurtures a rising epidemic of Discipline Deficit Disorder. Research shows that self-discipline is twice as strong a predictor of school success as intelligence. Our kids may be as smart as ever, but a culture of “More, Easy, Fast and Fun” is undermining what really counts in the classroom and what will carry our children into thriving adult lives.

Along with the National Institute on Media and the Family and the Minnesota Elementary School Principals' Association, the coalition consists of fifteen organizations:
--Minnesota Association of Secondary School Principals
--Minnesota Elementary School Principals’ Association
--Association of Metropolitan School Districts
--Education Minnesota
--Fairview Health Services
--Minnesota Association for Family and Early Education
--Minnesota Association of School Administrators
--Minnesota Minority Education Partnership
--Minnesota PTA
--Minnesota School Counselors’ Association
--Northern Star Council of the Boy Scouts of America
--Pacer Center and Pacer’s Minnesota Parent Center/Minnesota Perk
--Parents United
--Putting Family First
--The Working Family Resource Center

About the National Institute on Media and the Family
The National Institute on Media and the Family is an independent non-partisan, non-sectarian, nonprofit organization. The Institute’s mission is to maximize the benefits and minimize the harm mass media have on children through research and education. For more information, visit www.mediawise.org.





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Get Acrobat Reader  Progress, Say_Yes_to_No, May 08.pdf  



Progress of the MN Say Yes to No campaign
(May 2008) -- Kids today spend 44.5 hours a week in front of electronic screens, more time than any other activity except sleeping. The subtle but pervasive effects of media pose a great challenge to our long term social and economic well being. While many kids don’t play violent video games or watch crude movies, all kids get a constant drumbeat of media messages promoting “More, Easy, Fast and Fun.” Research shows that self discipline is twice as strong a predictor of school success as intelligence. Our kids may be as smart as ever, but a culture of “more, easy, fast and fun” is undermining what really counts in the classroom and what will carry our children into thriving adult lives. In September, 2007 the National Institute on Media and the Family partnered with the Minnesota Elementary School Principals Association, and sixteen other statewide education and parent organizations to launch Minnesota Say Yes to No. This grassroots campaign brought together an unprecedented coalition of parents, educators and community leaders in conversations about raising healthy, self-reliant kids.  Say Yes to No ignited conversations, meetings, and events all over the state -- 153 (53%) Minnesota school districts participated. To download a five-page progress report of all that has been accomplished across the state, scroll to the PDF on the bottom of this page.



Mission: The Minnesota Elementary School Principals' Association is dedicated to promoting and improving education for children and youth, strengthening the role as educational leader for elementary and middle level principals, and collaborating with partners in education to assist in achieving these goals.

Leading schools toward excellence through the MESPA vision to be the premiere resource for preparing today's principals for tomorrow and a strong leading voice for public education.

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